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IF LOVE COULD THINK : USING YOUR MIND TO, ALON GRATCH
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Author Name    ALON GRATCH

Title   IF LOVE COULD THINK : USING YOUR MIND TO

Binding   TRADE PAPERBACK

Book Condition   VERY GOOD CONDITION

Publisher    THREE RIVERS PRESS

ISBN Number    1400098165 / 9781400098163

Seller ID   IM335826

A groundbreaking book about why the one thing we all fear--ambivalence--is the one thing we must accept to find lasting love.
"If Love Could Think" is an entertaining and practical book that addresses with warmth and intelligence the age-old question relevant to any stage of a relationship: why does love go wrong, and what can we do to make it right?
After many years of treating patients with relationship problems, psychologist Alon Gratch has identified seven common patterns of failed love. These patterns include, for example, narcissistic love, when a person has so idealized the partner and the relationship that they can't possibly continue to measure up; one-way love, when a person loves someone who doesn't return that love; triangular love, when a third party, be it a mother, an affair, or a job is involved in the relationship; and forbidden love, the kind of relationship that is generally off-limits, such as when a teacher dates a student. In "If Love Could Think," Gratch shows us that all of these patterns stem from one fundamental problem--our own ambivalence.
With his trademark combination of depth and humor, and using many individual stories as engaging examples, Gratch walks us through the ways we get stuck in these patterns. In each case we are looking for perfect or ideal love. Every pattern creates an obstacle so we don't have to face our own ambivalence about the relationship or the other person. But humans aren't perfect, so no matter how wonderful love can be, there is no such thing as pure love. Ambivalence implies the existence not only of love but also of anger, disapproval, or disappointment. As Dr. Gratch shows, there are really only two choices: accept ambivalence as part of any loving relationship, or continue to repeat the patterns of illusory love. Happily, using a simple yet powerful three-step approach, " If Love Could Think" helps readers to use their own minds to break these patterns of failed relationships and find real and lasting love.

"From the Hardcover edition."

Price = 6.50 USD



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